"If two people are in love,
you can do nothing about it."



♥ Saturday, April 30, 2005
gUys...


*Guys should NEVER make empty promises..The girl will NEVER forget that u NEVER keep ur promise....

*Guys should be MORE sensitive to a girl's feelings..

*Guys should NEVER neglect their GF just becoz of their buddies..

*Guys should ALWAYS BE THERE for their GF..

*Guys should NEVER LIE.. coz the Girls r SMART these days..

*Guys should ALWAYS be the BEST in everything...So that the Girl can learn from u.. Yet DUN be TOO Arrogant...

*Guys should be MORE Patient and Understanding when its the "time of the MOnth" for the Girls.. They tend to haf MOOD SwIngs...

*Guys should learn how to SHOW more AFFECTION to their Loved ones..

*Guys should ALWAYS take the FIRST STep..

*Guys should MAKE DECISIONS... Not say "dunno lar.. or anything larz.." Girls like guys who can make decisions.. whether is where to eat or go or do... Bleahz~~

*Guys should Try to send their GF home from sch or work if they haf the time despite the distance..

*Guys should learn NOT to be toooo Messy... in the things they do..

*Guys should learn to call and sms their GF ani time of the day/nite.. Basically give their GF the
sense of SECURITY.. tats wat girls want from most of their BF...

*Guys should try to let their GF know where and wat their doing all the time.. SO should their Girl..

*Guys should NEVER Flirt around too Much.. Everyone would know that ya a JErk.. Girls can gossip quite alot..

*Guys should learn to be more Passionate..

*Guys should be SMART, Quickwitted and STRONGWILLED..

*Real Guys DO CRY.. they haf feelings too.. But dun CRY to Often... Coz its NOT very manly.. Besides ya be known as a WIMP..

*Guys should KNOW their GF likes and dislikes..

*Guys should know their GF contact NumberSSss by Heart...

*Guys should never give excuses like
` - SOrry I fell asleep..
` - Sorry I was caught in a jam..
` - Sorry my hp went Low..
` - Opps.. I didn't know that..
` - Oh i forgot...

*Guys should Never use phrases like
- ya not angry r u? (when its OBVIOUS she is..)
- I dun like it.. ( when u haven't even try )
- I dun like them ( when u haven't even met them )

*Guys should always TRY new things and learn to adapt..

*Guys should ALWAYS make a good impression on the Girl's Parents..

*Guys should know how to make their GF happy..

*Guys should be DARING to meet ani of their GF's friends, relatives.. blah blah...

*Guys should never make their GF to beg for them to do this or that..

*Guy should Learn to behave themselves at times..

*Guys should be Fun, Talkative, Outgoing..etc..

*Guys should Never force their GF to do anithing they dun want..

*Guys should always FEEL like a girl when guys r wif their GF.. Girls like guys who can be their bestfriend too.. Understanding.. etc..

*Guys should always talk to their GF about their made-decisions.. and ask how to feel about it..

*Guys should NEVER always expect a GIRL to tell them WAT THEY DID WRONG.. when EVERYTHING was WRONG...

*Guys should NEVER be Ignorant!


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7:26:00 pm
love story...


Daniel and Jasmine are sitting alone in the park, one night.

Daniel:I guess we are the left overs in this world

Jasmine:I think so, all of my friends have boyfriends and we are the only 2 persons left in this world without any special person in our life

Daniel:Yup I don't know what to do

Jasmine:I know! We'll play a game

Daniel:What game?

Jasmine:i'll be your girlfriend for 30 days and you will be my boyfriend

Daniel:That's a great plan in fact i don't have nothing to do much this following week...

DAY 1:
They watch their first movie and they were both touched by a romantic film

DAY 4:
They went to the beach and had a picnic...Daniel and Jasmine have their quality time together

DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they ride on a Horror House ride. Jasmine was scared and she thought she touched Daniel's hand but she touched someone else's hand instead and they both laughed.

DAY 15:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and they asked for their future advice and the fortune teller said: "My darlings, Please don't waste the time of your life...SPend the rest of your time together happily" Then tears flow out from the teller's eyes

DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor...Jasmine mumbled something

DAY 28:
They sat on the bus and because of a bumby road Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident

DAY 29:
11:37pm
Jasmine and Daniel sat in the park where they first decided to play this game...

Daniel:I'm tired Jasmine...Do you want anything to drink? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road

Jasmine:Apple Juice that's all

Daniel:Wait for me.

20mins later; a stranger approached Jasmine

Stranger:Are you a friend of Daniel?

Jasmine:Why yes? What happened?

Stranger:A reckless drunken driver ran over daniel and he is critical in the hospital

11:57pm
The doctor came out of the emergency room and he handed out an apple juice and a letter

Doctor:We found this in daniel's pocket

Jasmine reads the letter and it says: Jasmine, This past few days, i realized you are a really cute girl and i am really falling for you..Your cherished smile your everything when we played this game; before this game would end. I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life. I love you Jasmine.
Jasmine crumples the paper and shouted: "Daniel ! i don't want you to die. I love you, Remember that night when we saw a meteor, I mumbled something; I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and never
end this game. Please don't leave me Daniel. I love you! You cannot do this to me" Then the clock strikes 12 Daniel's heart stoped pumping

THEN IT WAS THE 30TH DAY;


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Always love your loved ones and show them how you feel before it is too late...You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace...If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion and love to your loved ones? Today is the day, love them while they are still here.


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7:22:00 pm
what shuld u do if yr gf called ya?


the couple where chattin on the fone happily, when guy uncontrollably yawns


bad example

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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??

guy: yeah, tired from work...

gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah

guy: ok, you have an early nite too..

guy hangs up the phone.5 min later, phone rings awaken by the phone rings, guy: hello?

gal: .............

guy: who's this?

gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?

guy (confused): huh? what?

gal: .............

guy: why? what happened?

gal: you find me very bothersome is it?

guy: bothersome? why you said this??

gal: ..............

guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?

gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...

guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...

gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to say?

guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?

gal: since when i'm unhappy?

guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that do?

gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not because afraid that i will be unhappy...

In the end, guy spend another HR comforting gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep.what worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.



good example

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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?

guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.

gal: (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then (still sounding out) never fall into the trap
and hang up the phone

guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and offer make up measure)

gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.

gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this

guy: so what time you are going to sleep?

gal: not sure, probably a bit later.

guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one hor...

gal (feeling loved): ok lah...

guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)

gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)

guy: ehmm...

gal hang up the phone

in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call from gal the next day...


conclusion 1:

female wants feeling and care. most of the time, female's logic cannot be figure out with a reasoning mind.


conclusion 2:

say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you morethan hr of precious time


conclusion 3:

when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the phone first. else it will be disastrous...



conclusion 4:

if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then congrats to u! treasure her! but if otherwise, dun accuse
her of being unreasonable.what she wants is very simple..


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7:13:00 pm
pregnant!?!?


moii god.. nowaday d0ctors r crazie n l0usy... went to see d0c 0n thurs.. d0c suspect ii g0t hiigh blo0d pressure.. but when check, say n0 pressure.. so jux giimmi some panadol.. den g0 hm.. friidae g0o sch feel liike vomiitin... when tuu see d0c duriin sqoul hrs... hiiaz... siian.. yesterdae criied... stReSs... n0w ii noe 1 of e fact0r 0f why ii'm stress.. abt moii famiily.. hiiaz.. dun wana say abt iit le.. falliin iint0 depressiion le.. duno lar.. ii tiink g0nna fall iint0 depressii0n le.. deep deep depressii0n!! bad headache siia.. stressed out!!!! den yesterdae onlii eat 1 d0uble cheez burger.. tiink tuudae aso abt the same de lar.. hiiaz... thiing around miie r driiviin miie craziie!!!!!! nuts~!!! need to get out of house...


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3:42:00 pm
♥ Thursday, April 28, 2005
siick!!


moii god.. ii'm soo siick!!! argh.. sweatiin all e way after ii wake up just now at about 9pm... took a rest but after ii wake up, head feel verii heavy... hiiaz.. tiired.. dun tiink goiin sch tmr.. hiiaz.. just tot abt moii relatiionshiip... feel so far yet near... a weriid feeliin iin tiis relatiionshiip.. ii feel verii far away frm hiim but yet near.. wad's tiis?? aiiyo.. weriid lehx.. not realli berii niice lehx.. headache... alot tiing to stress abt.. wonderiin iif moii headache was caused by all these thiinkiin..


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1:24:00 am
♥ Wednesday, April 27, 2005
headache!!


aiiyo yo.. moii head iish gonna burst soon!!! haviin a bad headache now... feel liike dyiin now.. feel liike gonna faiint soon... argh!!! shiit.. jiia lat.. moii head iish burstiin.. duno why these few days veri stressed out.. argh!!! shiit lar.. tmr need to meet up for proposal aso.. duno lar.. shiit... nb.. wtf lo... !!!!!!!!! wana diie le lar~~!!wtf...


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6:00:00 pm
♥ Monday, April 25, 2005
hheadache!!


weii~!! exams cumiin soon le peepx~!! study hard... wahhaha... siianz.. ii'm verii siick nnow.. hiiaz.. after sqoul went tuu priimary sch frii house... tan xiin shii.. dduno why tuudae ii soo moody llehx.. went tuu sqoul wiif a fark up face... hardy smiile tuudae siia... ddun feel liike moiiself.. feel liike smokiin n driink agaiin siia... but at tiis tiime where tuu get?!?!? hiiaz.. soo stressed... yesterdae babiie scream at miie for nth... ii noe not on purpose de... but duno why ii wanted tuu hang up but diin... so waiited for hiim to hang up den ii off moii fone.. but bu ren xiin make miie worry cuz he oreadii tiired le... den on hp lorz.. he's the 1st guy who shouted at miie fer nth.. so is liike abiit upsad abt iit lo.. hmm.. duno why soo moody tuudae siia.. not liike moiiself... aRgh~!!! ii seriiouss feel liike faiintiin now... just now walk home stiil not so bad.. went bathiin got a faiintiin feeliin... liike got whiite spots ard... liike gonna faiint anii tiime..


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4:56:00 pm
♥ Saturday, April 23, 2005
ii despiite hiim!!!


EeEe... can't beliieve iit!!! moii friiend's boiifriiend iis cheatiin on her!!! iit hhappened 1 yr ago.. all the theiir frenz nnoe abt iit but diin tell her about iit... allot stuff happened duriin the periiod of tiime.. shiity guy!! despiite hiim!!! 1st, he iish wiif moii friiend and told another gurl tat he liike her askiin her to be hiis gf.. hiis tryiin to 2 tiime!!! iidoiit!!! kan bu qii ta~ 2nd tiing iish he fucked another giirl... moii god!! nort say e giirl iish some babe, she's fat n biig siize... 3rd iish he like another giirl.. wad the fuck he wan siia... hate these type of guys... iif he realii lub her, he'll moii friiend tat he fucked the giirl.. they should break earliier... waste of tiime!!! iif moii boii were to do tat tuu miie, he wun be spared!!! can't stand, moii friiend iish not angry wiif him yet.. just diisappoiinted.. aiiyo... duno wad the hell she's tiinkiin... argh!!!


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1:26:00 pm
♥ Monday, April 18, 2005
quiiz


Cocktail
Cocktail


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Revenge killer

You kill for
revenge.

That is because you have lost something or
someone you held very dear. Now you can't seem
to get over the loss that marked your soul, and
the only solution is to go after the one person
who brought all this pain to you. Chances are
you are angry inside and you bottle everything
up and don't talk to anyone about it. People
may want to help, but you think that they can
never understand your pain and only get
frustrated because of this. But it is important
to see all that you have left and be thankful
of that even if you have lost something great.
It may not be true that Times heals all wounds,
but with time and talking about your feelings,
maybe the hurt will ease.

Main weapon: Yourself
Quote: "You can close your eyes to
reality but not to memories" -Stainslaw J.
Lec
Facial expression: Gritted teeth and
teary eyes




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Friend antiques
Your wise quote is: "The best antiques are old
friends" by Unknown...
Your buds is the source of your happiness
(maybe not all but still). Even if it's just
one, a couple or a whole group they are the
ones you can't wait to see. It does not matter
if you're shy with everyone else or not, with
them you let your true spirit shine and can be
as loud as you want. They accept you, and you
love them for that.


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sweet
You like the ones that understand you.


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You're Sensitive and you'd like to stay that way..
-Sensitive- You're Sensitive, and you'd like to
stay that way. Sorry,listened to a bit too much
Jewel there. You're sweet and very emotionally
charged. You definitely love the person you're
with, and always want to know how they're
feeling so you can make sure they're happy.


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HASH(0x8cf3b58)
You are a Belly Dancer. You are charming inside
out, your life follows an interesting rhythem,
beautiful and smooth, you know how to be the
center of attention when you want to, you love
your friends and you can trust them on your
life. Your ideal man is the one with a sweet
witty character who understands how much
freedom is important to you.


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http://members.rogers.com/lim.jennifer/green.jpg
In your eyes, people see life... You see yourself
as just an average person! You enjoy life, love
wildlife, but also enjoy time with those who
know you best. You like to get outdoors and let
your mind wander over all of the mysteries god
gave to you. You don't really have a certain
sanctuary because you're so well-rounded, but
you like having fun and adventures, but can
also be found sitting quietly about, reading a
book. You have a pretty good life ahead of you,
never trade it for anything else :)


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10:52:00 pm
ddear outt...


hmm... siian now.. nnow alone at hhome..nutiing tuu do so blogg lorz.. miissiin moii ddear babiie nnow.. hhe went tuu kbox wiif weiilun.. hEe.. miie miiss hiim alotx~~ hiiaz.. tuudae iis our 1 monthsary.. lolx.. by right lar.. but by left we count by the date.. haha.. bought him ciigarettes n a key chaiin.. i had a paiir... 1 fer hiim, n 1 for miie.. niice~~ ii tiink he lyk iit lar.. damn sshockedd wenn ii took outt the ciigarettes.. wahha.. tiink he nv tot tat ii'll buy them.. ask miie ddun buy anii mmore cuz scaredd ii kena ccaught... bbut nutiin wiill happenn dde lar... ii buy 2ndd tiim le..wee-ee-weet.. hEe... miisiin euu berii muchiie~~ mUaCkx~~~


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10:47:00 pm
♥ Friday, April 15, 2005
siick!!!


moii godd... ii'm sooo siick tuudae!! aafter sschool still ned tuu stay backk iin sch tiil 1.30 ferr proposall meetiin... got headache... lian se chang baii... every1 say ii look verii pale... duno lar.. feeliin berii bad jiiu diiu le... waiit till 3.15 den e stupiid meetiin den sstart... aiiyo yo... everytiime liike ttat... ii've nortt been out ferr 2wwekks le!! moii god!!! aRgH!!! cauuse of skool stuff llar.. projject n stuff... hiiaz... dunno lar.. tot of sth.. miie n bf nort veri close lately... duno wwhy ii feel ttat aso.. iit's llike weriid lehx.. lliike nortt berii close liike tat.. aiiyo... ii duno lar.. xiin fann nnow...


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6:38:00 pm
♥ Wednesday, April 13, 2005
gambling~~


wEe-eE-weeT~!!! justt come hhome... ffetch graniie frmm her siis's hhouse whiich iish moii granndauntiie... hEe.. learn some gambliin game.. miixture of chiinese chess n mmahgongg.. quiite compliicatedd... mustt count the poiints n euu mustt make sure euu dun miis anii turns n forrgett tuu tak cardds.. abiit blur.. nearli wiin moii auntiie... aRgh.. aniiwae, had quiite a great tiime... hEe.. nort bbad.. tiis week quiite uneventful.. nothiing much realii happenedd.. hEe.. justt changedd template...


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9:57:00 pm
♥ Sunday, April 10, 2005
t0n..


hmm.. went tuu buy moii contactx lens yesterdae... 1st tiime wear clear de... lolx.. dunno wiil get usedd tuu iit annot.. lolx.. onli wear clear de nort even one month... least tiime de buy at chiina.. nnot ccomfortable... hEe.. tiish tiime buy 3 paiirs... 35 bbucks... quiite cheapp... hEe.. after tat wentt tuu kallangg kfc.. saww peii wenn, saiiful , auntiie hhua , anna... hmm.. tink onlii these ffew sstaff lefft le.. lolx.. had shroom burger mmeal for diinner.. was served by aandrea~!! lolx.. sshe quiite shockked tuu see miie derr... wahaha.. actualli i wantedd to ton ardd leiisure ppark der dde briidge de.. bbut saiiful suggest go eeast coastt den go derr lo.. hee... siit dowwn aard bbedok jjetty untiil 1 llyk tatt go changii der.. e place where we see pplanes fly.. but tuu our diissappointmentt , no planess flyiin ard tat tiime... *s0b s0b* siit d0wn see alot vehicles moviin ard... siit tiil duno wad tiime, went back tuu east c0ast... siit dowwn on a rrock... talkiin, chiit chhatiin... till abt 4.30am, call aandrea wake upp... at 5am babiie sent miie home... reach moii housse abt 5.40am... siit down rrest awhiile before he cycle homme... sleep untiil 12 lykk tat wwake up... play mmaple untiil now.. hee... oh ya peepx~ now miie playiin maple agaiin le.. plz add miie... MissMagician... cheers~~


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2:38:00 pm
♥ Thursday, April 07, 2005
maple story...


hiiaz. just read his blog, only den i noe wad happen yesterdae... yesterdae he oreadi veri pek chek le den another fren[r] online aso... i tink he tot i partyin with him[r]... he damn bu shuang... but the fact is i partyin with his e other charactor... he nv leave party, i duno ma.. den he tot i party hiim[r]... he become damn angry... i was tinkin wad happen to hiim... aiiyo.. now den i noe.. stupid miie.. yesterdae oreadi maple tmd lag le... den so mani stuff happened... sure pek chek.. mi owaz lag out.. he owaz change charactor... i aso not pek chek or wad den run away.. he tink so much.. hiiaz.. duno lar... now den i realise he so angry.. no wonder he call miie yesterdae so pek chek.. say wana go sth ask miie go slp 1st...


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8:40:00 am
♥ Monday, April 04, 2005
mondae blues...


aiyo yo!! miie just wake up.. cuz stomach crampz.. too painful.. can't sleep properly... jia lat... later still got SW , for those hu duno it's PE.. ite call them Sports n Wellness [SW], go take MC le den go school... hee.. siian diiao lorx.. hiiaz.. no wonder these few dayz miie not feeling well... feel so werid..hiiaz... mondae blues siia... duno wad to do aso... aRgH!!! iidoiit... hate todae.. wad a bad dae to start a week...yesterdae went out wiif xanne... went to take photo... funie ppl are we.. forget to rotate.. den design all we put upside down... 2 gong gong go take photo is like tat one.. lolx.. wahaha... got to go see docter le... buaii.... mUaCkx...


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8:22:00 am



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